“Just bought a book on narcissism. It’s great. It’s all about me.”
Have you ever watched the old video segments of The Beatles in 1963 from The Ed Sullivan show? You would see that these guys were hungry for success and had worked hard to produce pleasant music. They were young and ready to make some money. They were enthusiastic, excited and singing love songs such as THIS BOY (my favorite), SHE LOVES YOU and I WANT TO HOLD YOUR HAND.
Then, as I watched old video segments from 1965 through 1969, their attitudes changed. A lot of my friends say that their music got even better but what I saw were guys who weren’t as hungry and excited. They were burnt out. How could they not have been burnt out with the fame they experienced?
As they approached 1970 when the band broke up, they became drug addicts. Their music changed from love songs to drug songs such as LUCY IN THE SKY WITH DIAMONDS, WITH A LITTLE HELP FROM MY FRIENDS and DAY TRIPPER. Many people liked the music better. I didn’t. What changed?
Then on March 4, 1966 The Beatles’ John Lennon said, “We are more popular than Jesus.”
Reactions included radio stations banning Beatles music and rallies of boys and girls stomping on their records and bonfires of Beatles material.
Audio Adrenaline, a band of 5 Christian men aged twentysomething, sang a song titled NEVER GONNA BE AS BIG AS JESUS in 1996. This song was a response to The Beatles’ claim that they were bigger than Jesus.
“Never gonna be as big as Jesus
Never gonna hold the world in my hands
Never gonna be as big as Jesus
Never gonna build the promise land
But that, that’s all right, O.K. with me.
I could build a tower to heaven
Get on top and touch the sky
I could write a million songs
All designed to glorify
I could be about as good
Good as any human could
But that won’t get me by.”
How do you handle success? Do you work to avoid arrogance? When you become successful, it is natural to become arrogant and not realize it – too much pride, personal superiority and thinking you are more important than others.
But Jesus said to seek Him first:
“But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” – Matthew 6:33
That is how to avoid arrogance and handle success in a modest way.
In 2021, we have a culture that has changed. Arrogance and narcissism seem to be common. Jesus said to seek Him first.
Pray for humility!
As Christians, many parts of our life are UPSIDE DOWN from the rest of the world.
Do you seek Him first in all that you do?