When we got our one dog, we had an invisible fence installed. She couldn’t see it, but she knew where to stay because she would feel a little shock from her collar. She soon learned the boundaries and wouldn’t even cross that line when her collar was off.
We set it up, not to hurt her, but to protect her. She was free to run and play and enjoy being outdoors as long as she stayed within the boundaries. Why? Because we loved her and we knew that, if she went outside that boundary, she might get tempted by what she saw on the other side, wander off and get lost.
God has set up for us an “invisible fence” through laws and rules He wants us to follow. Not because He wants to be mean, but because He loves us and doesn’t want us to get hurt or lost in our way. The only difference is He has also given us free will and so we set our own boundaries through morals. If our personal morals line up with God’s, everything is good. However, we humans are often willing to push those boundaries to the point of breaking when tempted by what we see others doing and seem to be getting away with.
There is a saying that, “The grass is always greener on the other side”. But, as the comedian Erma Bombeck used to say, “The grass is always greener over the septic tank” too. Temptation looks nice and green – even fun – but it is what is hiding beneath the surface that can destroy us.
The fall into temptation usually starts with, “Well, maybe just once.” Then that just once leads to, “Well that didn’t hurt!” or “Who is going to know?” Before you know it, we are trapped in sin and wondering how we got there or how we find our way back home.
Friends can be that temptation. Jesus warned us to not be yoked to unbelievers. Being “yoked” implies submission. In Matthew 11:29 Jesus tells us to take up HIS yoke, submit ourselves to Him every day and in every way!
He is the only one we should be yoked with or submissive to.
Should we never associate with unbelievers? NO! Jesus Himself was known to be in the company of sinners. How are they ever going to meet Jesus if we never introduce them to Him? However, they shouldn’t GUIDE our lives.
Only Jesus should do that.
What morals do you hold tight to? Do you have boundaries that you will not cross? Are they solid boundaries or are there cracks in your invisible moral fence?
Remember, the world is watching us. YOU might be the only Bible they ever read! Make sure they are able to clearly see God’s guidelines written on the pages of your life.